If she is interested in knowing what you are up to, it’s a sign that she still loves you and that she is concerned. This is a sure indication that your ex wife is hanging out in places where she believes you may be.
This is especially true if she is interested in knowing about your dating life. If you are coming across her more than you think you should be, it’s most likely not a coincidence.
There was no way I could keep that dating fire burning as practicality invaded our lives. Something I haven’t wanted to admit for a long time, but is undeniable.
And even worse, it seemed that the harder I tried to be sentimental and lovey-dovey, the less it was reciprocated. Or, once we had a daughter, when I shared the responsibility of watching over her. Because as our marriage progressed, I found myself offering to help out around the house more and more. It took me longer than I care to admit to understand what was happening. Through giving, through doing things for my wife, the emotion that I had been so desperately seeking naturally came about. An emotion that, once had, somehow magically stays within a marriage forever. And I’m saddened to think about how much those messages bounced around in my head for so long.
I realise now that even though we had some real success, it took a toll on those I loved. For me, I know this is what I must do with my life.